Monday, 26 October 2009

How To Have A HEALTHY FIGHT In A Relationship

Working as a psychologist in London, many men have confessed to me that they find it very difficult to cope with fighting with their girlfriend/wives. Most men do not like confrontation with their partners, but sometimes it is good to fight to bring issues to the surface. It is not healthy to suppress your feelings and to avoid negative issues in a relationship. It is important to understand that it's normal to fight in a couple, as long as you keep it kind and respectful when you argue. i.e. no calling each other names or purposely trying to be nasty to win the fight.
Some of my clients even confided that they would rather seek companionship from other women sometimes, i.e. London escorts, even just for a few hours to have a mental break from their current relationship without actually ending it. I can understand their needs and the reasons behind hiring London escorts for temporary companionship, but what is more important is to be open and honest with your partner and to communicate the underlying issues that are bothering you. Some great points below to have a healthy fighting attitude:

1. Be open minded and try to see things from different perspectives.
Sometimes people tend to get carried away with their argument. They are trying too hard to make a point and to get their opinions across, and often forget to listen. Do not cut each other off, it is very important to understand where your partner is coming from and what she has to say. Digest what she says and try to see things from her point of view. Forget about how you feel for a moment, and try to understand the situation rationally. This can also be a very good opportunity for the two of you to learn more about each other. Try to find a compromise as there is no need for anyone to 'win'.

2. Keep it impersonal and keep your voice down.
Things always sound worse when you raise your voice. Then the other person might get offended and become defensive. It is human natural reaction to defend ourselves in an argument, which may mask the real underlying issue. Do not point fingers and start the blame. It takes two to tangle; so as much as you think you are right, you are still half of the problem. Focus on the issues you are arguing about, and don't bring in personal problems or history into the fight to belittle your partner.

3. Always be respectful and kind.
Do not forget that you are fighting with someone you love. Sometimes we tend to hurt our loved ones the most as we tend to take things for granted. It is normal to have conflicting opinions and believes because everyone is different. Do not try to force your opinions on someone else. Be respectful and receptive to thoughts that are different to yours. You do not have to agree with them, but you don't have to throw a fight to try to change them.
Your London escorts may seem like an easy option as they do not fight with you, because you are not actually having a relationship with your London escorts. If you are in a relationship however, remember to keep your fights respectful and communicate openly, this is a long term solution to a healthier relationship.
To make up after a fight is very pleasant

Monday, 19 October 2009

The Power of Having A London Escort At A Business Meeting

Unless you’re a creationist, you’ll probably agree that human beings have come quite a way from sitting round a fire roasting chunks of mammoth on sticks. It seems the more time that progresses, the more civilized we get. But there are some things no amount of evolution or civilisation will change.

And one of those unchangeable elements of humanity (of men especially) is the drive to engage in sex, to reproduce. Success at sex has carried positive implications of genetic continuation for as long as we’ve been able to do it, and directly translates to all round success.

While the idea of the human alpha male has faded since times of hunter gatherers, when a group of powerful men get together, even in the most formal of settings (sometimes even more so), there is certainly some traces of this instinct, of the desire to be seen as dominant or successful.

So it’s no surprise that many businessmen hire London escorts to accompany them to business meetings. Appearance is crucial, but also layered, and ranges from what you’re wearing to how you hold yourself to your reputation as a businessman. And when London escorts provide such a positive impact on appearance and subtly and subconsciously imply success, it’s no wonder that hiring a London escort is fast becoming an accepted norm at a business meeting, as accepted as wearing a smart suit.

Imagine you were attending a very important business meeting, one crucial to the success of your company. You make every effort to optimize your appearance; you wear your best suit, your nicest smelling cologne. But when you arrive you realize you are in a minority who have arrived alone. Fellow businessmen are walking around accompanied by beautiful London escorts.

While arriving without a London escort might not have as noticeable an impact as, say, arriving without a suit, it could not only damage your confidence at a point when confidence is crucial, but cause you to be noticed as someone lacking something, not an image you want to be projecting at a business meeting.

Hiring a London escort is fast becoming etiquette for businessmen attending meetings, and with such an easy method to improve their overall appearances, it’s little surprise. While hiring a London escort might not make or break the business meeting, it certainly improves the appearance of businessmen and gives them an extra boost of confidence at a time that places huge importance on confidence.

Thursday, 15 October 2009

Treat Yourself To Harrow Escorts

Harrow is a town in North West London. It’s one of the main metropolitan centres and was included in Greater London in 1965. It is reachable vis the London Overground, and Bakerloo line of London Underground. Or you can also travel via Network Rail station to Harrow & Wealdstone station in Wealdstone. The station is located at the end of High Street which offers most of the activities in this area, including retail shopping, cafes, bars and restaurants.

If you are a gentleman that lives in Harrow and would like to find out tips on how to spend your nights doing more exciting and fun stuff, then Harrow escorts can be your perfect guides. Escorts in Harrow are stunning ladies who like to meet new people and to entertain. When you make a booking they will dedicate their time to be the best companions they can be to you.

All the ladies are physically attractive and smart at the same time. You will be surprised with how many lovely girls there are in the area. While you are considering the idea of booking an escort lady, why not jump online to check out all the ones that are available to you. These beautiful escorts are professionally presented in photos, flaunting their best assets, waiting for you to call and come to meet you.

You can have a closer look at the photos and find out which one appears to be the most attractive to you. If you would like to know more about their personalities, you can also read the description which tells you about their sizes, their characteristics and more. Once you decide which girl you prefer, you can simply call up the agency to book an available time slot. The girls will come to visit you at a place that is convenient for you, either it’s at your private residence or at a local hotel or local bar. All the meeting arrangements are done quickly and privately. You will be expecting a stunning lady to arrive at your door in no time. It’s a very comforting and relaxing way to meet someone new this way. All the girls are very professional and courteous, they like to be treated nicely and they will make sure that you are having a great time too. So it is time to relax and try something new and different. Book yourself a drop dead gorgeous escort and let her lead you into an amazing experience that you have never had before.

Tuesday, 13 October 2009


Everyone understands that London escorts are sometimes at risk of being subjected to dangerous situations. Although some circumstances are unavoidable, there are many measures that can be taken to make the job more safe for women.

By working for an escort agency, a certain amount of protection is provided making the work much safer. First of all, the agency has the name, phone number and address of the client that the girl is with so can keep track of her movements. Secondly, a trusted driver takes the escort to and from the appointment, waiting outside. He is on hand should she need any help. The escort will also be able to inform the agency of any clients who cause any trouble, so no other girls will be sent there in the future.

It is much safer for escorts to do outcalls to a client's home or to a hotel; she is more free to leave whenever she wishes. Girls who do incalls invite the client into their home for appointments which can be very dangerous. Often, they work independently and have no security. If girls want to do incalls at their own home, the best idea is to have a flatmate in the building who knows everything about your job and when you are meeting a client. You could also send a text with the client's details to someone you trust.

Of course, the most dangerous type of escorting is to work independently and pick up clients from the street. You would have no idea whose car you were getting into - whether it's a respectable gentleman or a convicted criminal. This method of finding customers is much more rare than it used to be; with so many opportunities on the internet, there are plenty of other options to choose from.

Undoubtedly, the safest way for London escorts. to work is by joining a respected escort agency who will take bookings for you and send you with one of their drivers. It may be tempting to work independently so that you can keep 100% of the money you earn, but the amount of advertising you have to do can cost even more than the agency's commission. Escort Agencies generally give you your own profile for free with a portfolio of your photos.

As the industry becomes less taboo, more options are becoming available to girls working as escorts. Make sure you take advantage of these opportunities and work as safely as you can.